What would you like to be remembered for?

I have been looking at this question for weeks now and can't decide how to answer it.  I want to be know as a wonderful wife, mother and grandmother.  I guess that is all I care about really.  It is a totally self-absorbed question.  I don't know how people even think of me in life.  They can take me  or leave me for who I am.  Hopefully I have a made some kind of impression.  I am always surprised when someone uses me as a good example.  I am usually one of those people that melt in the background and no one knows is there.  It was exhausting being the bishop's wife.  I had to be in forefront a lot.  That was hard.